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Round time of you'll hve number of or vrious jobs to perform se cn clude ttendg rehersl dner helpg drive members of bridl prty from ceremony to reception beg on hnd for photos nd helpg to decorte bride nd groom's vehicle for ir post-reception deprture or drivg couple to ir hotel dditionl could clude tkg gifts home until couple wishes to open m returng groom's tuxedo rentl nd even helpg newlyweds get to irport for ir honeymoon. Trckg down missg VIPs is stressful for everyone volved so don't be frid to send everyone remder nd follow up with m s deprture time gets closer If it's fesible try to hve ll groomsmen meet t one loction before hedg out just to mke sure re no hiccups or wrdrobe mlfunctions before it's too lte While your m responsibility is groom it's lso importnt to mke sure his groomsmen look presentble It's lso helpful to hve some sncks nd wter while everyone is gettg redy to combt nerves/hunger/hngovers. * responsibilities nd my vry from group to group so use this is bsic outle of you might need to do Your m responsibility s is to support couple before durg nd fter meng open communiction is key Tlk to groom mke sure he's good to go nd rely formtion to or groomsmen nd guests. This is it It's time for your speech Keep it short (under two mutes) nd be prepd (Tht mens writg it down nd prcticg you're gog to sy dvnce.) Remember to tost couple not just person you're representg nd be hppy! Everyone is re to celebrte so your speech should reflect tht But don't stress yourself out over it; no one will know if you forget le so relx nd spek. Your role s is to serve s liison between groom nd his groomsmen so mke sure everyone knows where y need to be This my clude helpg rrnge trvel ccommodtions for out-of-town groomsmen: irport to fly to where to sy how to get to nd from irport etc Remd m tht y'll likely need to rrive dy before for rehersl nd if it mkes sense for few out-of-town groomsmen to sh rentl cr or house for weekend help orgnize tht. Groom nd George Doyle/Stockbyte/Getty Imges Ok he probbly doesn't need your help gettg dressed but it's importnt to be re even if it's just to fix his tie Plus re will likely be some downtime before ceremony so it's up to you to mke sure he's relxed nd comfortble nd if nythg goes wry you'll be re. Beg for friend is (possibly) once---lifetime honor so you should enjoy it bsorb yourself socilize with everyone nd hve fun This will help or guests relx nd hve gret time too < href=" /BuzzFeeds" rel="nofollow"> Get more tips nd ides on BuzzFeed s Fcebook pge! Copyright © Lef Group Ltd ll rights reserved // Lef Group Lifestyle On dy of your s beg long before bride wlks down isle You'll often meet up with groom erly dy to help with ny lst-mute tsks such s coordtg groomsmen meetg with offict ensurg groomsmen performg ir tsks dditionlly it's lso idel to provide morl support to groom especilly if he's overly nervous When ceremony begs you'll wlk mid of honor down isle nd ssume position ner groom t llotted time you should hnd rgs to offict nd n sign mrrige license nd hold it. More often thn not couple hs to py (or t lest tip) ir offict nd or vendors dy of sk couple if y need you to do this nd remd m to brg pyments few dys before If you chrge of tht put money n envelope before hndg. T reception couple's friends nd fmily members will see you s person who knows 's gog on so be prepd to ct s host If guests confused you should be one to step up nd let m know where to go nd to do This isn't lwys necessry but knowg bsic detils nd schedule cn be helpful stressful situtions. Toronto-Bsed journlist Willim McCoy hs been writg sce 1997 specilizg topics such s sports nutrition nd helth He serves s Studio's sports nd recretion section expert McCoy is journlism grdute of Ryerson University. Just mke groom look good nd show up. Mke life esier on yourself nd use < href=" /" trget="_blnk" dt-skimlks-trckg='3777547'>Doodle to pick dte If re lot of people ttendg you cn simplify decision-mkg by cretg survey Google forms to see ctivities y'd like to do how much y willg to spend etc nd mke sure everyone is w of cost upfront For most prt everythg will be split mong ttendnts (excludg groom) but totl cost per person should be ddressed before nythg is booked Orgnizg bchelor prty cn be lot of work so don't be frid to delegte some of plnng to or this time to get to know or guys if you don't lredy fter ll you'll be chrge of m on dy of so it's probbly wise to remember ir nmes/fces. It's usully up to to help groom coordte groomsmen werg dy of This cn clude helpg him choose suits/tuxedos or simply mkg sure ll groomsmen know to wer nd where to get it or beg one to keep remdg m to get ir suit tilored nd if re out-of-town groomsmen it might fll on to pick up ir outfit sk groom he needs nd help him mke sure everyone is on.
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First mke sure ll of groomsmen w of schedule nd show up to rehersl on time Durg rehersl you'll receive severl structions bout how to enter spce nd to do once ceremony begs So py ttention! or groomsmen will be followg your led so it's up to you to know when to stnd wlk nd sit It my seem like lot but you'll go over it few times nd most officts offer very. Ledg up to you hve number of responsibilities One key duty is to help groom orgnize time t which every member of bridl prty visits forml clothg shop to get fitted for tuxedos nor importnt pre- duty is orgnizg bchelor prty Dependg on groom's wishes you might be tsked with orgnizg surprise prty Relted clude collectg money from ll ttendees keepg prty on schedule nd ensurg groom is enjoyg himself.